Secret memory with memfd_secret (#321)

Implements:
- An additional allocator to use memfd_secret(2) and guard pages using mmap(2), implemented in quininer/memsec#16
- An allocator that abstracts away underlying allocators, and uses specified allocator set by rosenpass_secret_memory::policy functions (or a function that sets rosenpass_secret_memory::alloc::ALLOC_INIT
- Updates to tests- integration, fuzz, bench: some tests use procspawn to spawn multiple processes with different allocator policies

secret-memory/src/alloc/memsec/mod.rs

@@ -0,0 +1,2 @@
+pub mod malloc;
+pub mod memfdsec;